How do haters make you famous

These hurtful and negative comments can be delivered in person, online, or in texts and apps. Often, the comments and behavior are repeated over time. Haters are often anonymous especially online but they can also be acquaintances, peers, or people who were once considered friends.

Hateful, critical behavior is another form of bullying or cyberbullying. Like bullying, hater behavior is something that a person does — it is not who they are, and it can be changed.

Often, haters pick on people whom they perceive as being different from themselves. Being the focus of negative and critical comments can be upsetting and trigger feelings of anger, hurt, and confusion, and cause the person being criticized to question their self-worth and behavior.

If the negative comments are posted online, it can also make someone afraid to use their social media accounts or feel ashamed of what is happening there. Teens who feel overwhelmed by all the drama on social media will often unfriend or unfollow people online to disengage. Ignore it. Never let haters bring you down. Knowing that is inevitable. So ask yourself, "How can I use haters to support my mission even more?

First, understand that what we feed grows, and what we starve dies. Don't react to your haters — it only feeds them. Second, realize their words are more about something unresolved within them than you. Third, be grateful.

Hate, love, critique and praise are all acknowledgment. You're no longer ignored or unseen; you've made it to the spotlight where the magic happens. Good job, you've made it to the next level.

Some of us are cursed with a natural desire to please everyone with our personal and professional choices.

Embrace the criticism. At age 40, we don't care what they think of us. At age 60, we discover they haven't been thinking of us at all.

Hurt people hurt people. When we tear others down, we reveal more of our true character than theirs. An attack on others only exposes our thought process, insecurities, suppressed emotions, and how we judge people. If feedback has any merit — regardless of whether you consider it constructive — be humble and openly consider it with gratitude and love.

It baffles me when I see two keyboard warriors attacking one another online. Tempers flare, egos are damaged, and no one is inspired to grow. A discouraging word could augment your thought process. Be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger. The best, most powerful advocates often start out as your toughest critics. That said, you do not have to conform to anybody else's beliefs.

Instead, you should be proud of what makes you unique. Learning to love yourself for who you are will enable you to live a more independent-thinking life. That will lead to greater levels of satisfaction and accomplishment.

Others might tell you that your self employed business will never succeed or that you will never accomplish your goals. You can use these negative responses as motivation to succeed. You do not need to prove anything to anybody. That said, if it will motivate you to know that upon your achievements, you will be able to quiet the haters, then take advantage of that, and use it as motivation to work harder. Haters can also be a great way to better appreciate your victories.

Accomplishing something after many people told you that you would not be able to is a great feeling. You should be proud of what you are able to achieve throughout your life. Your haters can serve as a reminder to appreciate these victories and be grateful for all the good you are fortunate to have. Kimanzi Constable. The Oracles. Max Pecherskyi. Alp Mimaroglu. Julia Weikel. Skip to content Profile Avatar.

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